Wednesday, August 20, 2008

loser...frens...

of coz, all of us nid frens,
but thr will be some exceptional oso..
maybe some ppl thk their life will be definitely fine without frens....they enjoy theirs life alone very well, even though passing thru their whole life,
without fren, withour family, without partners n lover...
for me,
surely i am not tat kind of ppl...
i nid frens,
but i admit i am the one who is very aggressive n impetuous..if i did displease anyone of u all,i now apologise sincerely to u guys... sorry abt tat....
maybe some ppl who duno me will thk tat i am very lc...but then tats the way i am....tats my life..
i been long way to this world for 19 years..
i knw frens....among them, i met different kind of ppl,
fake fren, true fren, loser, stingy guy, Q 4 de..damn a lot lar....of coz...
but then, this world only will be interesting when there are different kinds of ppl...
everyone has the right to haf their own personalities...n some ppl r very stubborn, even though, they knew tat they did wrong, but they holding their so call principles very strong, n dun wish to apologise o wat....
overestimation...
some ppl is build wif super strong confidence, in some cases, they might overestimated for themselves....someone who is full wif confidence is quite gd, but thn it should not be over...hehe...
as frens, we must learned to tolerate others....to bear others behaviour..
v muz learn to accept others fault bcoz no one in this world is perfectly built..
nevertheless,
every ppl is full wif their own egoism, so, quarrel n fight might be occured if someone does to challenge others egoism....
level of patience of everyone is not the exactly same,so,
sometimes when we r making joke of others[ps: i only make joke of those fren who i thk they r my real fren], v muz not over a limit...everything should be till some kind of limit....
some ppl wil have some curious behaviour....
but we should not go n challenge them...let them enjoy their living style....
from a chinese phrase, JI SHUO BU YU, WU SHI YU REN..
means tat the thg tat we dun wish to happen on ourselves,
thn we dun applying the things to others...
this phrase reli helps a lot when v learn to be tolerated..
if we dun wish others to stare us, thn v should not stare others..
from my mentos, MS Jackie,
she said tat:
v will haf 2 choices everytime when things happen,
one is to go away frm it,
another is to get urself into it...
this is right,
v muz learn to control ourself,
Eg: once others stare on us,
we should smile n go away[i learning this, but in fact, i will stare him bak...so, i nid time, hehe....]..
or we can stare them oso...but tats now the way...
POINTING MIDDLE -FINGERS...
miao told me abt tis oso,
if v point middle finger at someone, they will feel like being challenged,
then their ego will rise up, if they can bear it...they might unhappy bcoz of tis...
then they will point u bak....so, war begin frm here.....
so, wat for for us to point middle finger on someone??
v might be get hurted frm tis oso..
n pointing middle fingers is not considered as very cool wat??
so....v must learned to show tat v r educated ppl...
pointing middle fingers is those action from someone who immature n uneducated...wat for for v dropping our status same wif them??if they point,n they feel happy wif it....let them go....
this wat i learning to control my egoism....
N all the statement above is just some of my thinking n feeling...
[ps: no offence..]

6 comments:

Boon said...
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Boon said...

[applausing]

Cool man,ur new entry just hit through the deepest part of my heart...its touching,and i totally agreed with wat u r said/wrote.

I am a guy who care a lot about wat other look/say about me,not becoz i scared they will backstabbing me...but i care about what i haf done to them tat make ththey haf such a thinking at me.

For me,i totally agreed(again),when u are joking with others,set urself a borderline,try not to exceed the limit,becoz the consequence is extremely terrible!!(For me lah...)
Which is......U MIGHT LOSING A FREN(especially a sincerely one...)

I nid fren...i care them,from their healty to their family...
whatever anykind of dilemma they r facing,if they try to talk o shared with me.
i will always be thr,my heart and ear are always open for them,sumhow i will even give them sum advice...

this is becoz they are my fren.
i nv add insult to their injury.
(sumtimes got lah...)

erm...am i a overconfidence ppl??
XP

erm...i do pointmid fing to my fren.
becoz this is how we communicate...
XP

haiz...i am a low class poor guy mah...

even like this...will u stil consider me as ur fren??haha!!

don try to broke my heart if u mean NO to me...

T-T

Cliv3 said...

ya.. friends are important.. miss some old fren like you and johnson.. haha.. those tat we can have fun everywhere and become daredevil XD..

Those days such as our BBQ, cinema time, splashing cake at some1's face(opps.. sorry =.=) and achievement of red house marching team victory.. awesome

YKit said...

may i knw who is the one delete his/her comment??however, thx for viewing my blogs...
ckb, for sure, u r my fren...hehe....
clive, the winning day of marching competition reli unforgettable...

Just Me..XD said...

lol..pointing middle finger tat juz for yap lah...haha..n..pointing middle finger tat i mean is not those play play one de...is serious lik wanna fight those lah...haha

Boon said...

its me lah...my first comment got sum problem(grammar mistake)...

then i delete it and repost loh...